A strong relationship will hold together throughout the good,
the bad and the ugly. However, relationships that are just
slightly unstable, will feel the pressure of life a lot more.
This means that issues with life in general rather than the
actual relationship will start to damage the relationship.
This could include financial or work related issues, where
one of the two individuals is out of work, struggling to find
a job or even in a significant amount of debt. Whilst people
who are not in a relationship deal with the pressures and
rectify the problems alone, a relationship requires a joint
effort. This includes solving the problems and dealing with
A large percentage of divorces are filed due to couples not
allowing time to get to know each other before getting married.
Couples that don’t allow themselves the time to know each
other inside out are practically asking for their relationship
to fail – but why?
Over time, personality traits that one of the married parties
doesn’t agree with or like, will soon start to play on their
mind. Alongside this, such things as criminal records or sexual
activities in the past are significant factors that can cause
a divorce. This can easily become unbearable for the other
party and may lead to the couple losing their attraction for
each other. Once either party feels that the love between
them is decreasing, it definitely will.
This is actually where lack of communication comes in. Thanks
to the above reasons, the married couple will find themselves
communicating less frequently. In actually fact they will
also find that they will be communicating in a negative way
more than previously, whilst they positive based communication
will have decreased. This tends to lead to ‘the final straw’
which inevitably, means a divorce!